I lived in an illusion, a bubble of safety and success where everyone saw my life as almost perfect, but I felt nothing. I was numb, frozen, and even though I could plan my life five years into the future, I didn't really feel the passage of time or any excitement about my future. It was a life of stability but lacking deep fulfilment, passion, and meaning.

The end of it came in one day — the war in my homeland of Ukraine shook me to my core. It made me realise how fragile life can be, how my time is actually limited, and how I was wasting it playing a role and being a well-polished version of myself. When everything I based my personality on was lost, I needed to rebuild and find my true self.

 

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I traveled the world, jumping from place to place, basically running away from myself, until I made a bold choice to step out of my comfort zone and leave behind my corporate career as the Head of HR in a fintech startup, along with all the material possessions I thought I needed (properties full of things I was so attached to). I knew there was much more to life and wanted to discover what I truly wanted and obtain a sense of purpose that resonated with my true self.

Through travel, introspection, and the guidance of mentors and spiritual practices, I learned invaluable lessons about resilience, self-worth, and the power of making choices that align with your values. I let go of chasing material things that didn’t bring true happiness and embraced a simpler life that felt more honest, joyful, and free.

 

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After two years of searching, learning, practicing, and experiencing ups and downs in order to make this transformation, I am the happiest I've ever been. I found my home, I'm in a healthy and loving relationship, I'm the healthiest I've ever been, I found my purpose, and I spend every day taking meaningful actions towards goals that excite me. Most importantly, I found myself. I can even say that I created myself — the best version built on my values, beliefs, and desires. And I love her so much!

If my story resonates with you, I invite you to connect with me on a free 15 min call to see if we match.

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