The Coach

I built a perfect life.
Then lost myself in it.

This is the story of how I went from numb and successful to genuinely alive — and why that journey is the reason I can help you do the same.

Margarita Ilkiv
300+

Hours of 1:1 client sessions

35+

Countries lived & traveled

8 yrs

Daily meditation & yoga

100+

People through art therapy

My Story

The life that looked perfect from the outside

I lived in an illusion. A bubble of safety and success where everyone saw my life as almost perfect — but I felt nothing. I was numb, frozen. I could plan my life five years into the future, but I didn't really feel the passage of time or any excitement about it. Stability without fulfilment. Motion without meaning.

"The end of it came in one day — war in my homeland of Ukraine shook me to my core. It made me realise how fragile life can be, how my time is actually limited, and how I was wasting it playing a role."

When everything I had based my personality on was lost, I needed to rebuild. I left my corporate career as Head of HR at a fintech startup — the prestige, the properties, the material possessions I thought I needed. I knew there was much more to life.

The search

I traveled the world — 35+ countries — initially running away from myself, until I made the choice to stop. Through travel, introspection, and the guidance of mentors and spiritual practices, I learned invaluable lessons about resilience, self-worth, and the power of making choices that align with your values.

I let go of chasing material things that didn't bring true happiness and embraced a simpler, more honest life. I trained as a certified neuro-transformation coach, integrating cognitive psychology with meditation, breathwork, and art therapy.

Where I am now

After two years of searching, learning, and experiencing real transformation, I am the happiest I have ever been. I found my home in Bali. I'm in a healthy, loving relationship. I found my purpose. I spend every day taking meaningful actions toward goals that genuinely excite me.

Most importantly: I found myself. I can even say I created myself — the best version, built on my own values, beliefs, and desires.

"I didn't become someone softer. I became someone real. That's what I help my clients do — not escape their ambition, but finally direct it toward something genuinely theirs."

Why I work almost exclusively with high-achieving men

I've spent over 7 years in corporate environments, working side by side with CEOs, scaling businesses, and guiding C-level specialists to achieve their goals. I know who you are. I know your real priorities. I know what goes on in the background of your mind — the pressure, the constant drive, the fear of slowing down.

Unlike many coaches, I won't ask you to compromise your lifestyle or "let go of everything and find love in your heart." I will make you stronger. I'll help you build a bulletproof mind that can handle any challenge — and a life that finally feels like it belongs to you.

Facts About Me

Outside the coaching room

Yoga & Meditation

I've practiced every day for 8 years — not as a retreat, but as a foundation.

Art Therapy

I've painted my whole life, and developed a unique art-therapy practice that helped 100+ people process and transform.

Physical Health

I quit alcohol, smoking, and coffee. I'm at the gym 5–6 days a week. My body is part of the system, not separate from it.

5 Languages

Ukrainian, Russian, English, Polish, and Spanish. Language shapes how you think — and how you access yourself.

Based in Bali

Living in Bali for 3+ years. The environment you choose is part of the life you're building.

Built This Site

I built my first website myself, so it would be a true representation of me — not a polished corporate facade.

Your First Step

30 minutes.
No pressure.
Real clarity.

A genuine conversation to understand where you are, what's keeping you stuck, and whether working together makes sense.

✓We'll name exactly what's keeping you stuck right now
✓You'll leave with at least one concrete insight
✓No commitment — only honest conversation
✓30 minutes that could reframe the next 10 years

Available for clients in all time zones · Sessions held via video call